Thanks to Annie for posting more information under the original post. Also check out her blog: http://afterabortion.blogspot.com
Thanks also to Theresa who sent me this information:
The Franciscan friars of the Renewal in NY have a post abortion retreat for men. One is taking place in New Jersey on June 25th.
If you go to Luminas web site http://www.postabortionhelp.org/ , and to the article page, you will find info on men and abortion.